tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6425574730684689275.post3062097887191124054..comments2023-06-25T06:16:56.158-04:00Comments on <center>Trans Queers: A Transfags Sex Journal</center>: Feedback from a readerTrans Queers: A Transfags Sex Journalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06294698378863262002noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6425574730684689275.post-91870251454874748082011-01-04T23:44:26.984-05:002011-01-04T23:44:26.984-05:00Hey cockwagon,
first off, thank you so much for y...Hey cockwagon,<br /><br />first off, thank you so much for your response. this is exactly the kind of dialogue we were hoping for amongst folks in our community. much luv and respect for your response. <br /><br />we are both responding together to this so we'll try and separate our comments when needed. <br /><br />i identify as a total bottom and its interesting that we have had different experiences - i've definitely had guys turn me down cuz they don't want to pussy fuck and i don't want to do anal and you've had the exact opposite. there was a while where i felt like i had to do anal in order to hook up with gay guys even though it wasn't my thing. <br /><br />my co-blogger, identifies as vers however right now is in a bottom/pussy fucking mood. he gets hit up all the time by bottoms who want to be fucked. he actually has never had someone turn him down because he wouldn't do anal or because he wouldn't do pussy fucking. but at times finding tops can be difficult for him. <br /><br />its fascinating how all three of us have such different experiences. <br /><br />much luv,<br /><br />TQTrans Queers: A Transfags Sex Journalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06294698378863262002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6425574730684689275.post-35430060909846748152011-01-04T22:18:28.287-05:002011-01-04T22:18:28.287-05:00Hey y'all thanks for posting this - I wrote a ...Hey y'all thanks for posting this - I wrote a longish post in reply to this over at my blog. The URL for that post is tumblr.com/xzz172994g , and I've included an excerpt below.<br /><br />"[W]hen I look for hookups I need to find guys who are cool with the fact that they are almost certainly not going to get to fuck my front hole.<br /><br />This can be difficult.<br /><br />In my experience, a lot of men (gay, queer, and otherwise) don’t see the point in having sex with a guy with a cunt if they can’t use it - or, put another way, aren’t interested in fucking a boy without a cis cock if they can’t play with a vagina instead. I get turned down on a regular basis because I don’t do front hole sex, by both pretty normatively-identified gay men and by queerer dudes; and some of the creepiest and grossest-feeling comments I’ve gotten from sites like ManHunt have been from guys who wouldn’t believe me when I said I’m really not into front hole and who insisted that they could ‘make’ me like it. [...]<br /><br />There’s nothing else useful I can really say here but that lots of guys are uninterested or obnoxious and lots of other guys are cool and respectful - you just kind of have to deal until you find someone who works."<br /><br />Thanks again,<br />cockwagon.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04620116423874272993noreply@blogger.com