recently i've gotten myself in a bit of a relationship. my NSA status has shifted somewhat. this was entirely unintended on my part. a regular hook up became a frequent regular became a casual dating situation. the boy is mad sexy in a skinny, twinkish brown boy kind of way, not my usual cup of tea i like a little more meat on a boy but so be it. we have absolutely nothing in common except that we have incredible sexual chemistry and we have fun together. he definitely is more into me than i am into him and is up front with me about it as i am up front with him about how i feel.
he is a stereotypical gay boy queen - into fashion, partying and fucking and having gotten to know this person for some time i can say with relative certainty that's about it. don't get me wrong he cares for me, his friends, chosen and blood family but the ongoing state of war, violence and injustice in the world is not something that even crosses his mind. no judgement intended - i don't understand it - its not a way i live and move in the world. i get where the creation of this bubble comes from though - very few of us trans and queers of color have lived without struggle - and we all manage it in different ways of which all are valid.
we generally have a lot of fun together despite our differences. of course as would go with someone you are dating, even casually things happen and you hurt each other. i would say we've been good about being up front with each other when this happens and in every instance the other has apologized with little defensive and tried to be accountable. what i've come to realize recently though is that this is not what i want. i can have amazing, hot incredible sex with someone regardless of politic or how they move through the world. i can have interesting conversation with people who don't give a shit about the state of the world but are good people, interesting people, even people i do not share politic with.
however if it moves beyond just fucking i've come to realize i need more. i need some shared politic, doesn't have to mean they live and die for the movement, but i need an understanding that the world is a fucked up place and that its not ok and something should be done about it. and i need someone to be passionate about something, care about something beyond fucking and partying. that's where i landed recently and had decided to think on it but was pretty much gonna let the boy know that this was never going to go beyond casual dating and that while sad i understood if this meant it needed to end.
then also recently, seperately but perhaps connected in ways i have not fully processed, i got very very drunk and did and said some things that crossed his boundaries unintentionally, not of course that it matters, as i still did it, and for this i feel ashamed. then he told me about how his friends, a crew of non trans gay boys, mostly of color, could not wait to know what had happened as it had been a bit of a public situation. and this pushed me over the edge. some of it was my own anger at myself, of course, but just pointed to another issue while i believe his friends care and love him and each other they take joy in putting down others and in other people's drama and i've told him many times that is something i cannot get with - don't laugh at her because her make up is messy, you don't know what she's been through, to me i see strength, beauty and pride (or challenge myself to do so) not someone to laugh and make fun of.
i also started to think about things that had caused conflict, his friends range of isms and my complicitness in it. i started to feel like fuck this dude. i'm done with this. i know that some of this came from my own shame and anger at myself but i also know some of it was real.
then i read this piece by this incredible activist - mia mingus about how we treat each other as queer pocs. and it made me stop and think.
how can i do right by this person. how can i be honest about where i'm at in a way that does the least amount of harm yet is honest and real yet caring. while this brown gay boy and i need to change how we are in relationship with each other i value and care about him. how can i hold this moment of connection, of community and of relationship in a way that does not feed into all the negative messages that we all receive as queers of color seeking to move through this world
Thursday, May 2, 2013
Sunday, April 14, 2013
the body builder
i just got home from the gym and was feeling frisky. dude hit me up on one of the sites. i didn't look to closely at his stats, but saw that he is a body builder. hot. we arrange to meet up in half an hour. i do some random stuff around the house then grab my supplies and hop on my bike. i get to his place and realize this guy is humongous. he says he is 6'4 or 6'6 or something around there and weighs 270 pounds of which i would say the majority is muscle. he gives me a big bear hug saying 'you are so cute'. as he hugs me my face ends up somewhere between his belly and his chest. his chest is so broad it seems like it would take at least 3 of me to make up his width. he says he is off season right now so not to be frightened next time i see him as he will be even bigger.
he leads me into his apartment and asks where i want to fuck. i motion towards his bedroom. i climb up on his bed which is quite high up. he kisses me pushing his hand down my pants and sliding his thick fingers into me. i moan as he strokes me. then he pulls out his cock.
now i've done some big dicks before (i couldn't get it in) but this was ridiculous. it was not very long maybe 6, but it was the thickest cock i have ever seen. probably about an orange in thickness, think sunkist not organic. he pushes my head towards his cock and i give it my best go but really can only somewhat suck on the head. i pull back and hand him a condom which i already know is going to be way to small. i lube him up well. i ask if i can be on top and he says he doesn't like to do it that way so i say cool, just go real slow, and lay back.
he puts the head to my cunt and begins to push in. his cock is stretching me painfully and i guide his pace until i can take him. then he begins to fuck me. pushing his thick cock into me. its slightly painful and really good all at once. he fucks me faster his massive body slamming between my thighs. i go as long as i can and then it just hurts. i stop him. he asks what's wrong. i say, 'dude you are fucking huge!' he says 'but you have such a nice tight pussy'. i say 'i think you are gonna have to jerk off man i'm sorry'. i say 'if you let me ride you i may be able to take more, i can take more on top'.
he says ok and lies back. i climb on top of him. i slowly slide him in just the head at first until i can take it all. then i ride him. it feels incredible. i'm able to take him all and it feels amazing his cock stretching me my clit rubbing against him. i place my hands on his massive chest and milk his cock, rocking up and down his thickness. he moans. i ride him faster and harder. i'm gonna cum he growls. fuck yeah i say riding him hard until he groans and shoots inside me.
i roll of him and curl up on the bed for second, worn out. then i pull myself together, clean up, thank him and hop back on my bike.
he leads me into his apartment and asks where i want to fuck. i motion towards his bedroom. i climb up on his bed which is quite high up. he kisses me pushing his hand down my pants and sliding his thick fingers into me. i moan as he strokes me. then he pulls out his cock.
now i've done some big dicks before (i couldn't get it in) but this was ridiculous. it was not very long maybe 6, but it was the thickest cock i have ever seen. probably about an orange in thickness, think sunkist not organic. he pushes my head towards his cock and i give it my best go but really can only somewhat suck on the head. i pull back and hand him a condom which i already know is going to be way to small. i lube him up well. i ask if i can be on top and he says he doesn't like to do it that way so i say cool, just go real slow, and lay back.
he puts the head to my cunt and begins to push in. his cock is stretching me painfully and i guide his pace until i can take him. then he begins to fuck me. pushing his thick cock into me. its slightly painful and really good all at once. he fucks me faster his massive body slamming between my thighs. i go as long as i can and then it just hurts. i stop him. he asks what's wrong. i say, 'dude you are fucking huge!' he says 'but you have such a nice tight pussy'. i say 'i think you are gonna have to jerk off man i'm sorry'. i say 'if you let me ride you i may be able to take more, i can take more on top'.
he says ok and lies back. i climb on top of him. i slowly slide him in just the head at first until i can take it all. then i ride him. it feels incredible. i'm able to take him all and it feels amazing his cock stretching me my clit rubbing against him. i place my hands on his massive chest and milk his cock, rocking up and down his thickness. he moans. i ride him faster and harder. i'm gonna cum he growls. fuck yeah i say riding him hard until he groans and shoots inside me.
i roll of him and curl up on the bed for second, worn out. then i pull myself together, clean up, thank him and hop back on my bike.
Friday, April 5, 2013
nice guy - invisible trans allies
its friday and i have the day off. for once i have absolutely nothing that i have to do except i want to hit the gym. i'm feeling a bit frisky so i get on a couple of the sites. a couple of dudes hit me up but no one who is available right now and/or interesting to me. then a dude hits me up, no pic but he sends me a couple as he messages me, he's attractive, not hot but attractive. dom verbal top and he is available soon. perfect. we arrange to meet in two hours which gives me enough time to hit the gym first.
i'm back from the gym and dude shows up soon after. he mostly looks like his pic which is cool. i'm looking for a hit and split type of situation not looking to chat much. i'm his first trans guy. we exchange a few usual pre fuck how are you's then get right to it. he has an average cock which is perfect cuz i did a really big thick dude the other day and don't think i can do it again. we kiss and he plays with my nipples. we strip to our drawers and he motions to his cock. i pull out his cock and take him into my mouth. he's not hard so i suck him off, love the feeling of a cock growing in my mouth.
once he's hard he pushes me back on the bed. i pull down my briefs and he sucks me off. he's good, not great but good. he pulls back and spreads my legs. i stop him and grab a condom. he pushes into me. slowly as i take the full length of him moaning. he fucks me slow at first, long slow strokes, then he's pounding into me my legs on his shoulders. he turns me over and fucks me doggie, pushing my head into the bed as he fucks me hard and rough. i can only do so much doggie so i stop him and ride him. my cunt milking his cock til i cum then he cums soon after shooting inside me.
this was a good fuck. not spectacular but good. afterwards we are just chatting over a beer. he tells me he is 40 something, born in argentina, lived in the states most of his life, doesn't have a boyfriend right now. and then he tells me about his 'nephew' who is trans (male to female). at first i'm turned of that he keeps using male pronouns for this person and i try to correct him.
he has only met this person two or three times and doesn't know the name this person uses now but he tells me how his brother often calls him to discuss his 'nephew'/niece. he tells me how he constantly corrects them when they call this person gay and explains that they are trans and straight.
he tells me about how he tells his brother over and over that he needs to be there for his child, that god does not create anything that is wrong and that his child is a child of god, that he needs to show compassion and show love and get his child the medical care so they can transition to a woman. now i'm not religious at all but i'm feeling alot of love for this dude. his niece likely has no idea that she has an uncle advocating for her as they have barely even met.
i say to him, you are a really good guy and your niece is lucky to have you.
he cleans up and we part with a quick kiss.
i'm back from the gym and dude shows up soon after. he mostly looks like his pic which is cool. i'm looking for a hit and split type of situation not looking to chat much. i'm his first trans guy. we exchange a few usual pre fuck how are you's then get right to it. he has an average cock which is perfect cuz i did a really big thick dude the other day and don't think i can do it again. we kiss and he plays with my nipples. we strip to our drawers and he motions to his cock. i pull out his cock and take him into my mouth. he's not hard so i suck him off, love the feeling of a cock growing in my mouth.
once he's hard he pushes me back on the bed. i pull down my briefs and he sucks me off. he's good, not great but good. he pulls back and spreads my legs. i stop him and grab a condom. he pushes into me. slowly as i take the full length of him moaning. he fucks me slow at first, long slow strokes, then he's pounding into me my legs on his shoulders. he turns me over and fucks me doggie, pushing my head into the bed as he fucks me hard and rough. i can only do so much doggie so i stop him and ride him. my cunt milking his cock til i cum then he cums soon after shooting inside me.
this was a good fuck. not spectacular but good. afterwards we are just chatting over a beer. he tells me he is 40 something, born in argentina, lived in the states most of his life, doesn't have a boyfriend right now. and then he tells me about his 'nephew' who is trans (male to female). at first i'm turned of that he keeps using male pronouns for this person and i try to correct him.
he has only met this person two or three times and doesn't know the name this person uses now but he tells me how his brother often calls him to discuss his 'nephew'/niece. he tells me how he constantly corrects them when they call this person gay and explains that they are trans and straight.
he tells me about how he tells his brother over and over that he needs to be there for his child, that god does not create anything that is wrong and that his child is a child of god, that he needs to show compassion and show love and get his child the medical care so they can transition to a woman. now i'm not religious at all but i'm feeling alot of love for this dude. his niece likely has no idea that she has an uncle advocating for her as they have barely even met.
i say to him, you are a really good guy and your niece is lucky to have you.
he cleans up and we part with a quick kiss.
Saturday, March 9, 2013
mr sweat
NOTE: Hookups are inherently risky - this piece is about a hook up that reminded me of that in case you want to skip it.
I had hooked up with two of my regulars on Saturday. One in the afternoon who's a quick fun hook up and then the other at night who i really like and is a much longer experience....
I had hooked up with two of my regulars on Saturday. One in the afternoon who's a quick fun hook up and then the other at night who i really like and is a much longer experience....
Its now Sunday afternoon and I'm tired. However, I'm just surfing the sites to see what's going on when a cutie hits me up. and he is not far away. i head over. he is a big guy which i couldn't really tell from his pics but is ok with me. we get to it right away. he has porn playing on his laptop. we both strip. i kneel between his legs and blow him. i grab a condom and slide it on. he's big and rough. pushes into me hard, pounds his hips into me, its hot, but then he starts to sweat. i don't mind sweat. i mean everyone sweats. but this is ridiculous. he is on top of me and the sweat is pouring off him and dripping all over me, on my face, into my mouth. its too much. i stop him and push him onto his back. i ride him til we both cum.
i roll off him and lay back for a second catching my breath. we chat for a few while we recover and then i say i have to go. he says 'ah, already' and starts kissing me rolling his sizable body on top of me. i can feel that he is hard again. but i'm done. i stop him and just say 'nah man i really gotta go'. he grinds his hips into me, i feel his hard cock on my stomach and says 'are you sure?'. i say 'yeah man'. there is a moment when i think 'what if he doesn't get off, dude is so much bigger than me...' however, instead he grabs me in a huge bear hug and says 'ok' and rolls off me.
i've been really fortunate (knock on wood) exploring the world of anonymous play. no one has forced me to do anything i did not want to. in most cases if things were to go awry just the pure physical size of my hookups versus my small frame put me at a major disadvantage especially when im buck naked. while this dude had no intention of forcing me to do anything, that moment when i thought 'what if he doesn't get off me' was a reminder of my vulnerability.
i roll off him and lay back for a second catching my breath. we chat for a few while we recover and then i say i have to go. he says 'ah, already' and starts kissing me rolling his sizable body on top of me. i can feel that he is hard again. but i'm done. i stop him and just say 'nah man i really gotta go'. he grinds his hips into me, i feel his hard cock on my stomach and says 'are you sure?'. i say 'yeah man'. there is a moment when i think 'what if he doesn't get off, dude is so much bigger than me...' however, instead he grabs me in a huge bear hug and says 'ok' and rolls off me.
i've been really fortunate (knock on wood) exploring the world of anonymous play. no one has forced me to do anything i did not want to. in most cases if things were to go awry just the pure physical size of my hookups versus my small frame put me at a major disadvantage especially when im buck naked. while this dude had no intention of forcing me to do anything, that moment when i thought 'what if he doesn't get off me' was a reminder of my vulnerability.
Friday, February 22, 2013
short fucks
in appreciation of the short, quick fuck.
fuck 1
dude and i had just started chatting on one of the sites recently. very cute, used to date a trans guy. as usual scheduling issues made it hard to hook up. finally we arrange a date. he got lost so was late, but eventually made it. as cute in person as his pics. small, average build. we make out and strip. he spreads my legs and plays with my clit. i take his cock into my mouth and blow him. he has a nice, cut medium size cock. i slip a condom on him and he pushes into me. 'damn you feel so good', 'you're so tight', he moans as his hips pound between my legs. he lifts my legs to his shoulders and watches as his cock slides into me. 'i'm getting close' he moans. 'cum man' i say, i haven't cum yet but i wasn't necessarily looking to cum. he speeds up and moans as he shoots inside me. we chat for a bit after, he show's me pics of his ex then he has to go as his boyfriend is waiting for him. 50 minutes
fuck 2
i had not seen this guy in over 2 years. he lives really far away. i'm having one of those days when everyone is cancelling on me and i'm horny. he hits me up as he does now and then. we chat and i say he is too far but he says he will come to me and can be there in an hour. perfect. he is very cute in a seattle grunge long hair kind of way. he arrives and we start making out immediately. strip and he sucks my nips as i remember now he really likes to do. we grind and kiss and he's hard, he has a nice thick uncut cock and i want him in me. i grab a condom and he pushes in. fucks me missionary then turns me over and fucks me from behind. we fuck for about 20 minutes until he cums grinding his hips into me as he shoots. we chat some, he cleans up and heads out. 40 minutes
fuck 3
this asian boy and i used to be pretty regular fuck buds sometimes it was good sometimes ok. i have written about him before (tale of two cocks). however for various reasons it has been at least a year since we last fucked. i have somewhere i need to be around 7pm. we arrange to meet at 6pm. he gets held up and show's up at 6:30pm. we both strip right away. i kneel down and blow him quickly. 'let's fuck he says'. i grab a condom and ask how he wants me. he bends me over so i'm on my hands and knees and he pushes into me from behind. fucks me doggy style. his balls hitting my clit with each stroke. he used to be able to go for a long time but we are both in a hurry. after about 10 minutes he says he's getting close and i tell him to cum and he shoots inside me - big load, i remember that he shoots big loads. we chat for a bit but i gotta go so he cleans up and head out the door. 30 minutes
fuck 1
dude and i had just started chatting on one of the sites recently. very cute, used to date a trans guy. as usual scheduling issues made it hard to hook up. finally we arrange a date. he got lost so was late, but eventually made it. as cute in person as his pics. small, average build. we make out and strip. he spreads my legs and plays with my clit. i take his cock into my mouth and blow him. he has a nice, cut medium size cock. i slip a condom on him and he pushes into me. 'damn you feel so good', 'you're so tight', he moans as his hips pound between my legs. he lifts my legs to his shoulders and watches as his cock slides into me. 'i'm getting close' he moans. 'cum man' i say, i haven't cum yet but i wasn't necessarily looking to cum. he speeds up and moans as he shoots inside me. we chat for a bit after, he show's me pics of his ex then he has to go as his boyfriend is waiting for him. 50 minutes
fuck 2
i had not seen this guy in over 2 years. he lives really far away. i'm having one of those days when everyone is cancelling on me and i'm horny. he hits me up as he does now and then. we chat and i say he is too far but he says he will come to me and can be there in an hour. perfect. he is very cute in a seattle grunge long hair kind of way. he arrives and we start making out immediately. strip and he sucks my nips as i remember now he really likes to do. we grind and kiss and he's hard, he has a nice thick uncut cock and i want him in me. i grab a condom and he pushes in. fucks me missionary then turns me over and fucks me from behind. we fuck for about 20 minutes until he cums grinding his hips into me as he shoots. we chat some, he cleans up and heads out. 40 minutes
fuck 3
this asian boy and i used to be pretty regular fuck buds sometimes it was good sometimes ok. i have written about him before (tale of two cocks). however for various reasons it has been at least a year since we last fucked. i have somewhere i need to be around 7pm. we arrange to meet at 6pm. he gets held up and show's up at 6:30pm. we both strip right away. i kneel down and blow him quickly. 'let's fuck he says'. i grab a condom and ask how he wants me. he bends me over so i'm on my hands and knees and he pushes into me from behind. fucks me doggy style. his balls hitting my clit with each stroke. he used to be able to go for a long time but we are both in a hurry. after about 10 minutes he says he's getting close and i tell him to cum and he shoots inside me - big load, i remember that he shoots big loads. we chat for a bit but i gotta go so he cleans up and head out the door. 30 minutes
Sunday, January 6, 2013
"do i have a gut?" - quick fucks and body image continued
lately i've been hanging out more frequently with a crew of non trans gay guys of color ranging in ages from 20's to 40's all very apolitical not at all in the activist left leaning circles i usually run. they are generally all good, kind caring guys and i have fun hanging out with them for the most part.
one of the first pieces i wrote for this blog was about body image and hook ups - "do i have a gut". I've been thinking more about this lately due to this new crew i've been hanging with. the incredible pressure that gay guys internalize around body image.
every single guy, except for one, in this group of long time friends has had some type of surgery to make his body closer to that stereotypical gay male ideal, in some cases more than one. i had of course heard about gay guys and plastic surgery but i figured it was a wealthy white gay boy kind of thing.
These guys are not rich at all, they saved up thousands of dollars for these procedures. from hair plugs (dude was in his 20's when he got them) to butt implants, calf implants, and pec implants to surgeries to lose weight like lap bands and lipo.
while i have not had any surgeries i know that i am as sucked into the gay male body idealism as anyone else. and i do believe it has gotten progressively worse. i find myself more self conscious of my body when fucking then i used to be. i used to think about how i look while i'm fucking periodically. now i find its a pretty regular occurrence. 'ugh, it looks like i have a gut right now'... and then it definitely intersects with my internalized transphobia, thoughts like 'he's probably looking at my hips and thighs'....
its gotten to the point that i've realized in some convoluded way sometimes i would rather not fuck dudes who are toned and cut because it makes me extra self conscious about my own body.
its become pretty clear to me that the sizeism of the gay boy world has brought me back to a place. like many folks raised as girls for most of my childhood starting as young as seven and into my teen years i saw myself as overweight and unattractive. please note this is only my experience, every trans guy relates to how they were raised and socialized differently i.e. some trans guys were socialized as boys.
in college however i was exposed to a politic that sought to fight the sexist, racist, sizeist ideals of beauty. that centered a belief that everyone is beautiful and that what you wear or look like is not what's important but who you are, what you believe and what you do. for many years i embraced this belief.
when i started hormones i definitely became more conscious of how i dress and look as a means to pass. and no doubt there is alot of sizeism and body image pressure in the transmasculine world but for some reason it didn't impact me so much i believe largely because my core communities sought to resist this and held strong to a body positive politic.
but now the gay boy hook up world is definitely messing with my head. i believe strongly everyone should love their body and everyone is sexy in their own way. but applying that belief to myself has gotten more and more difficult.
one of the first pieces i wrote for this blog was about body image and hook ups - "do i have a gut". I've been thinking more about this lately due to this new crew i've been hanging with. the incredible pressure that gay guys internalize around body image.
every single guy, except for one, in this group of long time friends has had some type of surgery to make his body closer to that stereotypical gay male ideal, in some cases more than one. i had of course heard about gay guys and plastic surgery but i figured it was a wealthy white gay boy kind of thing.
These guys are not rich at all, they saved up thousands of dollars for these procedures. from hair plugs (dude was in his 20's when he got them) to butt implants, calf implants, and pec implants to surgeries to lose weight like lap bands and lipo.
while i have not had any surgeries i know that i am as sucked into the gay male body idealism as anyone else. and i do believe it has gotten progressively worse. i find myself more self conscious of my body when fucking then i used to be. i used to think about how i look while i'm fucking periodically. now i find its a pretty regular occurrence. 'ugh, it looks like i have a gut right now'... and then it definitely intersects with my internalized transphobia, thoughts like 'he's probably looking at my hips and thighs'....
its gotten to the point that i've realized in some convoluded way sometimes i would rather not fuck dudes who are toned and cut because it makes me extra self conscious about my own body.
its become pretty clear to me that the sizeism of the gay boy world has brought me back to a place. like many folks raised as girls for most of my childhood starting as young as seven and into my teen years i saw myself as overweight and unattractive. please note this is only my experience, every trans guy relates to how they were raised and socialized differently i.e. some trans guys were socialized as boys.
in college however i was exposed to a politic that sought to fight the sexist, racist, sizeist ideals of beauty. that centered a belief that everyone is beautiful and that what you wear or look like is not what's important but who you are, what you believe and what you do. for many years i embraced this belief.
when i started hormones i definitely became more conscious of how i dress and look as a means to pass. and no doubt there is alot of sizeism and body image pressure in the transmasculine world but for some reason it didn't impact me so much i believe largely because my core communities sought to resist this and held strong to a body positive politic.
but now the gay boy hook up world is definitely messing with my head. i believe strongly everyone should love their body and everyone is sexy in their own way. but applying that belief to myself has gotten more and more difficult.
Saturday, January 5, 2013
holiday fuck
i was out of town visiting fam for the holiday. i was getting hit up alot on all the sites - a wide variety of cuties. however, i'm here to spend time with my family who i don't see often and it doesn't feel right to leave them alone while i go fuck some dudes. i am in town for nearly two weeks though so i figure i'll give myself one day to play. i decide on this one dude because he is interesting, into bdsm, lots of tats, brown skin, just a little taller than me so not a big guy but very cute.
however he is very, very persistent which is a flag for me, not always but often in my experience overly persistent guys either want more than just a fuck i.e. become stalkerish and/or want to be your husband after the first meet up or are desperate for a fuck for a wide range for reasons....(no judgement, just not my thing) but there is something about this particular guy that intrigues me.
we chat on and off for a few days. i will be his first trans guy. even though getting to him will be a trek i decide to go for it over closer options. the day arrives when we have arranged to meet. i tell my family i'm meeting a friend and head for the bus. i'm still feeling unsure and nervous about this hook up. i know that its largely because i'm not on my home turf so feel off my game. there is also something about his look that is borderline hot/serial killer... i mean he is very nice but aren't most serial killers nice at the start? he offers to pick me up repeatedly which i decline, i always feel safer being able to get to a hookup on my own. he seems to sense my uncertainty suggesting i take a picture of his home and text it to someone when i get there. which actually makes me more nervous in some kind of weird way i.e. maybe this means i definitely should be nervous.
however i decide to proceed. its a long bus ride and the bus stop is a bit of a trek to his place, i stop and pick up some beers on the walk. i finally get there and his home reassures me, for some reason i was picturing a small house, with an empty yard and one car in the front, i don't know why that says serial killer to me... but instead its a small home with no real yard, a kayak hanging in the garage, a couple cars in front (turns out he has a roomie), a mountain bike chained to the fence.
he lets me into his place which is neat and clean (a thing i have) and has a really nice view. he is cuter than his pics in person. he says his roomie is home but doesn't care. i tell him i brought some beers to which he says he does not drink. i immediately feel like an ass, i usually ask guys before i bring beer, so much of our communities are in recovery and all. i apologize and say i don't need to drink and start to put the beer away. but he say's no its cool, he has been in recovery for a while and doesn't have cravings anymore and he wants me to be comfortable. he cracks one open and hands it to me.
i take a few sips. he says you are so cute and sexy and runs his hands down my back. i smile and put the beer down. we start making out and he is a very good kisser. i pull off his shirt and take off mine. he has the most incredible six pack i have ever seen. i lie back on the bed and he lies on top of me kissing and grinding. he starts to suck my nipples which is always an immediate turn on for me. i reach down for his belt, undue his jeans and stroke his sizable cock through his briefs. he's hard. i push him back and we both strip. i lie back on his bed buck naked. he says 'you are so hot' as he looks down at me.
i sit up and take his hard thickness in my mouth. my tongue sliding up and down his length, my lips wrapped around his head. he groans. i go at him for a bit then he stops me and asks if he can give me a massage. nice. he turns me onto my back and begins to rub oil down my back, ass, legs, his sizable hands kneading my shoulders and moving down. then he turns me over and begins kissing my nipples and moves down between my legs. he licks at my clit with the tip of his tongue. asks if its ok, i tell him to do it a bit lighter, which he does and it feels fucking amazing. his tongue slides up and down the length of me repeatedly, slipping in and out of me. i'm very wet and at this point i want more.
i stop him and ask if he has a condom. he grabs one out of his dresser and puts it on the bed, but then pushes me back plunging his head between my legs. i just can't get enough he says as his tongue circles my clit. finally i really can't take anymore and i push him onto his back, grab the condom and slip it on. then i mount him, slowly as he is a good size, i slide slowly down his cock until he is deep inside me. we both moan. i ride him taking the full length of him then pull him on top of me and he fucks me deep, his hips pounding between my legs our bodies rubbing tightly together my legs entwined with his. we fuck hard and fast, i grab his ass pushing him deep with each stroke. then he sits up so he's kneeling and can watch his cock sliding in and out of me. he reaches over and grabs a vibrator from his dresser and places its tip on my clit as he fucks me. the thrusting of his cock and the vibrations on my clit are bringing me very close.
then he pulls me over so i'm riding him again. our bodies are slick with the massage oil. i ride him slow at first, feeling his thickness, then faster, my clit sliding against him as i ride, until i cum collapsing on top of him. he is still hard as a rock however, but he pulls out and wraps me in a spoon. we rest for a bit and i look up and realize i've been there over two hours at this point and i need to go. he says you have to go huh? i say yeah, but you haven't even cum. he says no worries, it was more than hot.
i feel a bit bad but not enough to be late to meet my fam so we both clean up. he insists on at least driving me part of the way which i accept. on the way we chat he is a really nice guy but i realize that my initial instincts were somewhat right on. if i actually lived here i think he would have already had boyfriend visions in his head. however this was definitely a hot fuck. he drops me off and we part with a quick kiss.
however he is very, very persistent which is a flag for me, not always but often in my experience overly persistent guys either want more than just a fuck i.e. become stalkerish and/or want to be your husband after the first meet up or are desperate for a fuck for a wide range for reasons....(no judgement, just not my thing) but there is something about this particular guy that intrigues me.
we chat on and off for a few days. i will be his first trans guy. even though getting to him will be a trek i decide to go for it over closer options. the day arrives when we have arranged to meet. i tell my family i'm meeting a friend and head for the bus. i'm still feeling unsure and nervous about this hook up. i know that its largely because i'm not on my home turf so feel off my game. there is also something about his look that is borderline hot/serial killer... i mean he is very nice but aren't most serial killers nice at the start? he offers to pick me up repeatedly which i decline, i always feel safer being able to get to a hookup on my own. he seems to sense my uncertainty suggesting i take a picture of his home and text it to someone when i get there. which actually makes me more nervous in some kind of weird way i.e. maybe this means i definitely should be nervous.
however i decide to proceed. its a long bus ride and the bus stop is a bit of a trek to his place, i stop and pick up some beers on the walk. i finally get there and his home reassures me, for some reason i was picturing a small house, with an empty yard and one car in the front, i don't know why that says serial killer to me... but instead its a small home with no real yard, a kayak hanging in the garage, a couple cars in front (turns out he has a roomie), a mountain bike chained to the fence.
he lets me into his place which is neat and clean (a thing i have) and has a really nice view. he is cuter than his pics in person. he says his roomie is home but doesn't care. i tell him i brought some beers to which he says he does not drink. i immediately feel like an ass, i usually ask guys before i bring beer, so much of our communities are in recovery and all. i apologize and say i don't need to drink and start to put the beer away. but he say's no its cool, he has been in recovery for a while and doesn't have cravings anymore and he wants me to be comfortable. he cracks one open and hands it to me.
i take a few sips. he says you are so cute and sexy and runs his hands down my back. i smile and put the beer down. we start making out and he is a very good kisser. i pull off his shirt and take off mine. he has the most incredible six pack i have ever seen. i lie back on the bed and he lies on top of me kissing and grinding. he starts to suck my nipples which is always an immediate turn on for me. i reach down for his belt, undue his jeans and stroke his sizable cock through his briefs. he's hard. i push him back and we both strip. i lie back on his bed buck naked. he says 'you are so hot' as he looks down at me.
i sit up and take his hard thickness in my mouth. my tongue sliding up and down his length, my lips wrapped around his head. he groans. i go at him for a bit then he stops me and asks if he can give me a massage. nice. he turns me onto my back and begins to rub oil down my back, ass, legs, his sizable hands kneading my shoulders and moving down. then he turns me over and begins kissing my nipples and moves down between my legs. he licks at my clit with the tip of his tongue. asks if its ok, i tell him to do it a bit lighter, which he does and it feels fucking amazing. his tongue slides up and down the length of me repeatedly, slipping in and out of me. i'm very wet and at this point i want more.
i stop him and ask if he has a condom. he grabs one out of his dresser and puts it on the bed, but then pushes me back plunging his head between my legs. i just can't get enough he says as his tongue circles my clit. finally i really can't take anymore and i push him onto his back, grab the condom and slip it on. then i mount him, slowly as he is a good size, i slide slowly down his cock until he is deep inside me. we both moan. i ride him taking the full length of him then pull him on top of me and he fucks me deep, his hips pounding between my legs our bodies rubbing tightly together my legs entwined with his. we fuck hard and fast, i grab his ass pushing him deep with each stroke. then he sits up so he's kneeling and can watch his cock sliding in and out of me. he reaches over and grabs a vibrator from his dresser and places its tip on my clit as he fucks me. the thrusting of his cock and the vibrations on my clit are bringing me very close.
then he pulls me over so i'm riding him again. our bodies are slick with the massage oil. i ride him slow at first, feeling his thickness, then faster, my clit sliding against him as i ride, until i cum collapsing on top of him. he is still hard as a rock however, but he pulls out and wraps me in a spoon. we rest for a bit and i look up and realize i've been there over two hours at this point and i need to go. he says you have to go huh? i say yeah, but you haven't even cum. he says no worries, it was more than hot.
i feel a bit bad but not enough to be late to meet my fam so we both clean up. he insists on at least driving me part of the way which i accept. on the way we chat he is a really nice guy but i realize that my initial instincts were somewhat right on. if i actually lived here i think he would have already had boyfriend visions in his head. however this was definitely a hot fuck. he drops me off and we part with a quick kiss.
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